Emotional intelligence (EQ) applies to professional liability and claims work in a multitude of ways. Here are a few key takeaways from the discussion including the five core components of EQ and how each applies to claims handling, conflict resolution, and negotiation strategies.

The Five Components of Emotional Intelligence

The five elements of EQ are self-awareness, self-regulation, motivation, empathy, and social skills. Self-awareness means recognizing your own reactions and feelings before acting. While 95% of survey participants rated themselves as highly self-aware, only 10-15% were found to be truly self-aware using objective measures. Self-regulation is the “pause before doing” while using the four R’s: recognize, relax, reframe, and respond. Motivation is the internal drive to do meaningful work well, not just to hit closure goals. Empathy is putting yourself in someone else’s shoes to understand their feelings, particularly important since insureds, such as attorneys or physicians, often experience claims as attacks on their professional identity. Social skills tie the other four elements together, serving as the delivery mechanism for engaging with insureds, counsel, and other parties.

EQ in Claims Handling and Remote/Hybrid Work

EQ connects directly to claims work since adjusters are often the face of the insurance company and must stay calm, listen actively, and build credibility, even when delivering difficult news. Hybrid and remote work, accelerated post-COVID, has made EQ more important since non-verbal cues are harder to read. The biggest challenge in hybrid mediations is creating equal psychological safety and connection for remote participants who can feel like observers rather than full participants. Being intentional about checking in with remote team members and remote mediation participants, scheduling regular one-on-ones and debriefs, and treating feedback as part of the process rather than personal criticism are important.

Conflict Resolution and Negotiation Strategies

Applying EQ during high-stakes mediations is key. One approach includes noticing early signs of rising tension such as charged language or crossed arms and responding to lower the temperature rather than escalate it. A few other strategies involve using personal mantras to stay calm and grounded, suggesting breaks when emotions run high, using humor to diffuse tension, and even ending a mediation session early if tensions become too high to reset. Having a mediator speak privately with a client can help ensure they feel heard. Another useful approach is the “90-second rule” which is the idea that the physiological lifespan of an emotion is about 90 seconds, allowing time to pause before reacting, while acknowledging the importance of reflecting rather than ruminating after a difficult negotiation.

Why This Webinar Matters to Professional Liability Professionals

Professional liability claims are rarely just about policy language and coverage analysis. They involve people whose careers, reputations, and sense of identity are often on the line, so technical expertise alone isn’t enough to handle these claims effectively. How an adjuster or attorney manages their own reactions, reads the emotional state of an insured or opposing party, and navigates high-stakes conversations directly affects outcomes, from whether trust can be built with an insured to whether a mediation resolves calmly or escalates. As remote and hybrid work continues to reshape how these relationships are built and maintained, these skills offer a practical framework for professionals to handle conflict, deliver difficult news, and lead teams more effectively, regardless of how experienced they already are.

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Meet the Speakers

 

Alexandra Santo

Golden Bear Insurance Company

 

 

 

Erica Crowl

Alan Gray

 

 

 

 

Frances M. O’Meara

Wood Smith Henning & Berman LLP

 

 

 

 

Elizabeth Walker

Berkshire Hathaway Specialty Insurance Company

 

 

 

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